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Israel, Gaza and Genesis 12:3: Political Agenda or Bible Truth?

Cynthia Cummings-Walker, Lifeandbibleblog.com

Many Christians have been taught, and believed, for years that in Genesis 12:3 God was speaking to the nation of Israel. Not true. The nation of Israel was not in existence then. There were approximately 290 years between God giving this promise to Abram (renamed Abraham), to when God changed his grandson’s name from Jacob, to Israel.

God Was Speaking to Abram

“I will bless those who bless you, and whoever curses you I will curse; and all peoples on earth will be blessed through you.” Genesis 12:3 NIV

God chose Abram in Genesis 12:3 wherein He changed Abram’s name to Abraham. Within the Abrahamic Covenant, found in Genesis 17:5-8. God promised protection and blessing to the descendants of Jacob who would inherit the promised land.

The latter part of the verse “…all the people of the world will be blessed through you.”, is referring to Jesus Christ, the coming Messiah. Jews believe that Jesus was a blasphemer and imposter and they crucified Him. Israel awaits their Messiah. Question: “How can two walk together unless they agree (Amos 3:3)?

Regardless of what the Bible teaches, those who use Genesis 12:3 to justify and support the State of Israel ‘s crimes is a blatant false doctrine. A person who disagrees with Israel’s actions does not prove that they are anti-semitic. It means that they are actually Bible believers.

God Disciplined His Chosen People

God never allowed His chosen people, the Jews, to do whatever they wanted to do in violation of the Law He gave them. All the Israelites, except Joshua and Caleb died in the wilderness. The Israelites were taken into captivity by the Babylonians. They were enslaved by the Egyptians. They lost many battles because they refused to obey God.

Because God did not support, defend, or permit rampant evil by His chosen people, the Jews, then why is America funding and supporting the genocide in Gaza, and other war crimes that are in violation of Scripture, and international law?

Why is the United States Backing Israel?

Since God did not give His chosen people a license to kill, steal and destroy, why is America funding and supporting it? Not just America, this activity is championed by so-called “Christian” pastors, leaders, teachers and biblically illiterate Christians.

This appears to be more political than biblical. God would not condone Israel’s military actions. This is not a war between Israel and the Palestinians. War is when two militaries are engaging in combat. There is no military in Gaza.

There is a lot of money flowing from the Jewish community who want Israel to take over the entire West Bank. Many Jewish legislators have duel citizenship (Israeli and American) who wield power in legislative and political positions. The Vote.

AIPAC is pouring multi millions of dollars into the pockets of political figures and legislators who are both Democrats and Republicans, Jews and Gentiles, as quid pro quo, to vote Israel’s interests.

I’m not certain as to what Zionist pastors and Christian ministry leaders receive for their services. It may be money, favors, recognition or something else.

Nonetheless, because of these gateways, Israel’s interests will always supersede those of hard working, taxpaying citizens of the United States. The emerging paradigm in America is Israel First.

This is why the United States gives Israel billions of dollars a year to fight unjust wars. This is to the detriment of American citizens who go without adequate healthcare, housing, food, and education. The reason given is budgetary restraints. Israel has free healthcare and education. Amer

In conclusion

I believe that this current situation concerning Israel is all based on political decisions and false doctrine. It has nothing to do with Bible prophecy.

Your thoughts and comments are welcome.

May the Lord richly bless you as you seek His wisdom and guidance in a world of gaslighting and false doctrine being perpetuated.

Israel, Gaza and Genesis 12:3: Political Agenda or Bible Truth?

Cynthia Cummings-Walker, Lifeandbibleblog.com

God Was Speaking to Abram

“I will bless those who bless you, and whoever curses you I will curse; and all peoples on earth will be blessed through you.” Genesis 12:3 NIV

God Disciplined His Chosen People

Why is the United States Backing Israel?

I’m not certain as to what Zionist pastors and Christian ministry leaders receive for their services. It may be money, favors, recognition or something else.

Nonetheless, because of these gateways, Israel’s interests will always supersede those of hard working, taxpaying citizens of the United States. The emerging paradigm in America is Israel First.

In conclusion

I believe that this current situation concerning Israel is all based on political decisions and false doctrine. It has nothing to do with Bible prophecy.

Your thoughts and comments are welcome.

May the Lord richly bless you as you seek His wisdom and guidance in a world of gaslighting and false doctrine being perpetuated.

A Powerful Delusion: When Politics Masquerades as Christianity

Cynthia Cummings-Walker, Lifeandbibleblog.com

A delusion is having a strong belief in something that is completely false, without any facts to support their viewpoint.

The “Christianity” that is being publicly riled about by people in high places, have exchanged the truth of God‘s word for a political system. This system will supposedly make America a great Christian nation.

Many so-called Christian leaders, pastors, politicians, and people embrace this tyranny, greed, hatred, corruption, injustice, immorality, racism, and Christian nationalism is the “Way.”

Jesus says that He is the Way, the Truth and the Life (John 14:6.) What the cult Republicans claim is the way for a better life is the very antithesis of what Scripture teaches.

In this case, because so much evil is being advanced under the guise of Christianity, God has sent a powerful delusion so evildoers will double down on their lies and deceit. This delusion is to trust and believe that a person, or political party has the power to do what only God can do.

Worship the Lord Your God Only

In Matthew 4:10 “Jesus said, …”Worship the Lord your God, and serve Him only.” To worship a president through unfettered loyalty, praying around a statue of him, not condemning his quest to have his name and likeness on money, buildings and NFL football commercial, where the president proclaims his greatness, while the song in the background says “love me…love me…love me”. This is idolatry and blasphemy.

Furthermore, at a Republican midterm political rally, the president asked attendees to raise their right hand and swear fidelity to him… To lie, cheat and steal to win the upcoming elections. He told the attendees if they did not obey him, “they were going to go to hell.”

No one can serve two masters. Choose you this day, whom you will serve, the Lord God, or the president of the United States of America. As evil, masqueraded as Christianity continues, evildoers will go deeper into darkness and delusion.

There is a Solution for Delusion

2 Chronicles 7:14 reads: “If My people, which are called by My name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek My face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.”

Maintain a intimate relationship with God through bible reading, study and prayer. Ask the Lord to help you build relationships with people who love God and people; who can encourage you in the truth of God’s Word.

A biblical Christian can be identified by their works and words. Otherwise, a person who rejects the truth of God’s Word to live a life, based on conservative politics that masquerades as Christianity, is delusional.

In Conclusion

Can you answer the self-reflective question: Am I delusional? If you are not, praise God. If you are, you now know how to return to reality with the help of the Lord.

10 Ways to Support Grieving Parents

Cynthia Cummings-Walker, Lifeandbibleblog.com

When Someone’s Child Has Passed Away

When learning of someone’s child death, knowing what to say or do can be confusing or downright scary. That is completely understandable.

I’m sure that people want to help or comfort the grieving parents. Yet, because they are unsure of what to do or say, they may end up saying or doing something that is hurtful instead of helpful.

I know from personal experience. Hopefully something here will ease some discomfort in interacting with a parent who is grieving.

When My Child Passed Away

“I loved Rachel from the very first beat of her heart, and I will love her until the last beat of mine.”

As I sat at my daughter’s bedside and watched her chest move up and down, slower, and slower until it stopped altogether, my precious Rachel was gone.

Then the physician came into the room and placed the stethoscope on her chest. He nodded and verified, yes, she had passed away. No!!!!!!!! This wasn’t right. This wasn’t fair.

Even though I knew for about three days that this was coming, the reality of it all left me in shock. It was all so surreal. As I looked down on Rachel’s beautiful peaceful face, I had to acknowledge it. She was gone, never to return.

It was like I was in nightmare that I couldn’t wake up from.

A Parent’s Worst Nightmare

A child passing away is in a completely different category than a parent, sibling, spouse, relative or friend who dies. Of course it hurts and loved ones grieve. The pain and loss is different when someone’s child passes away.

This is not the way the world is designed to function. Children are supposed to outlive their parents. Right? I felt like the normal cycle of life had somehow malfunctioned and I was outliving my child. It all seemed so unfair.

2 Very Important Things to Remember

People wanted to comfort me. Some helped and some caused hurt. Not deliberately. They just didn’t know what to do or say. Here are a couple of things to realize right from the start:

There is nothing that can be said or done to fix the situation. Their child is gone, never to return.

The amount of contact you have with the parents should be in line with how well you knew them before their child passed away.

10 Things You Can Say or Do That Can Help Parents Whose Child Passed Away.

Be prepared in advance on what to say without any advice.
The fewer the words, the better. There is less of a chance to hurt or offend: Saying “I’m so sorry for your loss.” or “I love you.” or “I’m praying for you.” can be comforting.
Hugs can help if appropriate. Gestures can speak louder than words.
Take cues from the parents. Give the parent space until they feel comfortable enough to communicate.
When visiting, keep the visit short.
Be an attentive listener. Some parents want to talk about their child without interruption or unsolicited advice. It’s difficult just listening, yet it can help.
Sending flowers, cards and notes can let a parent know that you care and are thinking about them.
Take or send something to the grieving family. Examples: a meal, finger foods, fruit, paper cups, plates, napkins, tissue, bottled water, or anything else you may think of.
Order a meal from a restaurant and have it delivered to their home.
Do something special to memorialize their child. Example: Someone gave me a small figurine of a little girl angel. It reminded me of my daughter and meant a lot to me. Be creative if you want to do something special.

In Conclusion

Kind and thoughtful words and actions can go a long way in trying to comfort grieving parents. There is no timetable for how long a parent will grieve. Don’t believe the “stages of grief ” scenario. Grief has no timetable or end date.

There is no such thing as someone “getting over” their child passing away. We learn to move forward in life, focusing on what remains rather than what has been lost.

My thoughts and prayers are with you all, the grievers and those who are trying to comfort.

Please feel free to comment, or give other suggestions on what can comfort a parent whose child has passed away.

Is God Really in Control?

Cynthia Cummings-Walker, Lifeandbibleblog.com

In talking with other Christians about the unbridled evil that is pervading our nation and world today, I asked them a question “What can a Christian do about the rapid decline of our nation?” Pseudo-Christianity has taken a stronghold in government, evil is advancing, inflicting mass suffering on one hand, while there is wealth and unbridled power on the other.

Most Christians answered me by saying that all they can do is pray because “God is in control.” I wonder if saying “God is in control” is a statement of faith in God to do everything with no expectation of Christian action? Or is saying that “God is in control” simply an excuse that absolves a Christian of any responsibility to action?

God is Not in Control of This World, Satan Is

God’s absolute power is displayed through His Sovereignty, Eternality, Omnipotence, and Omnipresence. Yes, God has absolute dominion, power and control; however, the devil is in control of this world until Christ returns.

I John 5:19 “We know that we are children of God, and that the whole world is under the control of the evil one.”

2 Corinthians 4:4 ” The god of this age has blinded the minds of the unbelievers so that they cannot see the light of the gospel that displays the glory of Christ…”

Luke 4:5-7 “The devil led Him (Jesus) up to a high place and showed Him in an instant all the kingdoms of the world. And he said to Him, “I will give you all their authority and splendor; ..if You bow down and worship me.” Jesus did not dispute the devil’s declarations, He rejected the offer.

Hebrews 2:14 “Since the children have flesh and blood, He too shared in their humanity so that by His death He might break the power of him who holds the power of death – that is, the devil.”

To try to interfere with the devil’s control over the world might appear impossible; therefore, many Christians place the onus on God to control it all. No. God has given true Christians guidance, strength, and the ability to do the seemingly impossible in this battle against the wiles of the devil.

Do What Jesus Did

Evangelize

“But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you; and you shall be My witnesses both in Jerusalem and in all Judea, and Samaria and as far as the remotest part of the earth.” Acts 1:8

God has empowered Christians to accomplish His purposes. At the beginning of Jesus’ ministry, the first thing He did when he saw some fishermen, He asked them to follow Him and He would make them fishers of men (Matthew 4:19) That should be a Christian’s priority as well, among responsibilities:

Be Salt and Light

“You are the salt of the earth”. “You are the light of the world..” Matthew 5:13,14. Christians have a responsibility to reflect God’s character and truth by shining a light in the darkness that has covered the earth by the devil.

Salt cannot remove sin, yet it can slow down the degenerative process of sin. There are so many false religions, hellish activities disguised as Christianity. Matthew 16a says: “You will know them by their fruit.” We can spot truth from error and good from evil. A bad tree cannot produce good fruit.

There are so many false religions, hellish activity disguised as Christianity. Are the so-called Christians following the course the Lord has set before them to love as a foundation of their actions? Or are their actions completely antithetical to what the Lord commands. Do they hate, cause suffering and death to those whom Christ loves and died for regardless of their religion

Just disagreeing and praying is not enough. God requires us to bring light and clarity to what is happening. Warn those who are heading toward the cliff of politics to save America which has permeated our society.

Expose Evil

“And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness but rather expose them. For it is shameful even to speak of those things which are done by them in secret. But all things that are exposed are made manifest by the light: for whatever makes manifest is light.” Ephesians 5:11-13.

Jesus openly rebuked the Scribes and Pharisees on how they were misleading the people. The Apostle Paul called false teachers out by name. Jesus and Paul were exposing evil because people should be warned if they are headed for spiritual disaster. Some people do this openly and some do not. Christians have to pray and do what they feel is best, and in what way, as long as they deal with the issue.

I believe that Christians should have a relationship with the Lord through reading and studying scripture and obeying, then deviations in doctrine will be evident. For example: bank tellers do not have to know the different kinds of counterfeit money. They just have to study the authentic bills and a counterfeit will be easily recognized.

I point to scriptures regarding a situation, not necessarily individuals or “ministry” personalities. If a person is not generally knowledgeable about scripture, or are being drawn into harmful false doctrine, I will intervene until they are spiritually mature enough to discern good from evil.

Many of the struggles Christians have in this world are related to some type of Spiritual warfare. False doctrines or spiritual deceptions; trying to shine a light in darkness that unbelievers are in. Or, just plain wickedness permeating the devil’s world we are instructed to fight.

Fight Spiritual Warfare with God’s Power

“Now to Him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to His power that is at work within us.” Ephesians 3:20.

The amount of power God gives is probably commensurate with the relationship we have with Him. If we are in contact with Him daily and follow His guidance we may run on full power. If we are a nominal Christian we may have less to work with. Whatever stage we are in there is always room for a closer relationship with the Lord. Regardless, God has revealed to Christians what they need for the ongoing battle.

Ephesians 6:10-12 says: “Finally, be strong in the Lord and in His mighty power. Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realm.”

Just as we put on our natural clothing daily, we should put on the full armor of God. He has empowered, strengthened and equipped Christians to accomplish His Will and purposes. What we should remember to do is pray and obey His instructions.

In Conclusion

Relying on “God is in control” has little bearing on the reality of what is going on in this world. This is the devil’s world. This is warfare. Wars are not fought solely in the War room. Christian Warfare requires equipment, strategy and combat undergirded with prayer.

Therefore, put on the full armor of God and fight, fight, fight with purpose, words and actions. God’s power within us assures victory. The road may be tough, yet knowing that the Lord is with us as we accomplish His will gives us strength for the battle.

When we stand before the Judgement Seat of Christ we can hear Him say; “Well done My good and faithful servant” to the righteous, and “Depart from Me” to the wicked who embraced everything they should have rejected.

I’m Praying that Christians will always be moving towards a closer walk with the Lord. His Will is revealed in His Word, the Bible. God has a wonderful plan for our lives. He placed us here to succeed, not to fail. To Win, not lose.

May “The LORD bless you and keep you; the LORD make his face shine on you and be gracious to you; the LORD turn his face toward you and give you peace.” Numbers 6:24-26 Amen.

Navigating Grief on Mother’s Day

Cynthia Cummings Walker. Lifeandbibleblog.com

Mother’s Day was designed to be a happy day to celebrate mothers with cards, flowers, dining out, phone calls and texts. So, why would Mother’s Day bring so much grief to some. It’s simplistic and it’s complicated.

When my daughter passed away I didn’t think I could ever celebrate another holiday again, especially not Mother’s Day. The thought of it was heart wrenching. I was not supposed to outlive my child. After all, isn’t that supposed to be the natural cycle of life? Yet, not for me, nor for many of you.

Grief and loss filled the space which once brought such joy and happiness to me.

I struggled. I tried to appear cheerful as my sons celebrated me as their mother. As time passed, I realized I didn’t have to pretend to be ecstatic over all of the cards and gifts. It didn’t have to be gloom and doom either.

I searched for ways that would help me have a balanced approach to celebrations. I learned that laughing and having fun was not disrespectful to the memory of my daughter. When I felt like shedding a tear, there was no need to apologize for that either. It is all bittersweet since my beloved Rachel passed away.

Many Situations Can Cause a Person to Hurt on Mother’s Day.

A mother or child has passed away.

A mother may still be alive, yet dementia has robbed her of any meaningful contact or memory. A daughter lost her mother long before her mother passed away. It was a slow, aching grief that did not culminate when her mom breathed her last breath. The grief process continues.

A woman who longed to be a mother, yet was never able to conceive or adopt grieves the loss of what never was. Wanting to be a mother and being denied the opportunity is devastating while so many other women’s motherhood is celebrated.

Sometimes the grief comes because of the loss of a loved one who was a mother figure. Genetics does not equal family. Sometimes a non-relative can be closer than any blood relative.

A person may be estranged from their mother, or child, for many reasons. However, that reality does not take away the pain of not having a relationship, and being able to celebrate a natural bond that has been broken.

Have any of these situations, or others, cause you to feel hurt on Mother’s Day?

8 Things that Can Be Done When Mother’s Day Hurts

There are no pat answers about what to do, or not do when Mother’s Day brings pain. I’ve learned not to focus on what I’ve lost. Rather plan and make the best of what remains. The following are ideas.

Look at photographs or other memorabilia depicting happier times that can bring a laugh, or comfort you.
If your mother or child has passed away, shed tears if you must, don’t feel guilty or think you have to be strong for others in order to not rain on their parade.
Get together with people who understand what you are going through and will support you.
Create traditions that will distract from the specific celebration of the day.
Don’t trust everything depicted on social media as though everyone, except you, are thoroughly enjoying the day.
Try to focus on what you do have versus concentrating on what is missing in your life.
Try not to take the failings of others personally on Mother’s Day. Sometimes people’s actions are not necessarily about you. It could be about what they are dealing with that has nothing to do with you.
Try different things to see what works for you. When you do, perhaps you can pass ideas along that can help others to have a more pleasant Mother’s Day.

Praying that you will have a happier Mother’s Day this year and always!

Will the Gospel You Believe Save You, or Condemn You?

Cynthia Cummings-Walker http://www.lifeandbibleblog.com

There are so many “gospels”, depending on what your pastor, religion, country, or denomination teaches. It is crucial to know what the true gospel is. The gospel, according to the Bible, saves. A different gospel condemns.

Some definitions to clarify what each term means: The Greek word for “gospel” comes from the word “Euangelion” which translates to “good news”. The Greek origin for the word “Salvation” is “Soteria” which refers to deliverance.

The Biblical Gospel is Good News

Mark 1:1 The beginning of the good news about Jesus the Messiah, the Son of God.

Luke 4:18a “The Spirit of the LORD is on Me, because He has anointed Me to proclaim good news….”

What Do You Believe Regarding the Gospel and Salvation?

Many Christians believe that salvation is based on believing the gospel, that is a free gift from God. Other Christians believe that salvation requires a series of works. Many Christians believe that baptism is a requirement for salvation.

Baptisms may require the sprinkling of water; Others believe the Christian must be submerged in water; be baptized in Jesus’ name; be baptized in the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit.

Which One of These Do You Believe?

This belief requires baptism in Jesus’ name for the forgiveness of sins, and that salvation comes through works.

The belief is that a person must speak in tongues as a sign of salvation. The saved Christian must live a sin-free life or lose their salvation. This “salvation” is contingent upon how a person lives on a daily basis.

Acts 2:38 “Peter replied, “Repent and be baptized, every one of you, in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. And you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.”

This salvation belief is that all one has to do is believe. No baptism or works required.

John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that He gave his only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life.” Many protestant denominations say that all a person has to do is believe. Once saved, always saved.

This belief requires faith that accepts God’s gift of salvation. No baptism or human works involved.

Ephesians 2:8-9 “For it is by grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God; not as a result of works, so that no one can boast.” What do you believe?

A Different Gospel – Republican Politics

Galatians 1:6 “I am amazed that you are so quickly deserting Him who called you by the grace of Christ, for a different gospel,”

I Timothy 4:1 “The Spirit clearly says that in later times some will abandon the faith and follow deceiving spirits and things taught by demons.”

The republican gospel is good news for you if you are a White, far-right republican, Christian nationalist, evangelical, MAGA, or everyday White supremacist. This different gospel sanctifies the republican party as a means of salvation through secular policies and laws, rather than individual’s salvation through faith in Jesus Christ.

The god of this gospel is the president of the United States. This different gospel promotes hatred, judgement, intolerance, injustice, cruelty, criminality, terror, murder, narcissism, greed, and all kinds of deviancy. All non-republicans are considered to be on the Left, and are of the devil.

This alternative gospel is the antithesis of what scripture teaches, to love God and people. Christ’s name may be used as a hook for the naïve, racists and unbelievers. However, Christ’s life, nor His teachings have any part in this false gospel.

This Far-right gospel is preached from pulpits and podiums across the nation. Its declaration is saving a nation through the republican party, rather than the biblical gospel that transforms individuals’ lives and therefore, a nation.

Romans 8:1 “There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.” KJV

Which gospel brings forth salvation, and which gospel brings righteous condemnation?

What Can Be Done to Circumvent False Gospels?

From Pastors, Christian leaders and everyday Christians, there needs to be a commitment to knowing and spreading the truth of the biblical gospel that leads to salvation. Otherwise condemnation is at hand for many.

Preach and Teach the Bible Accurately

2 Timothy 4:2 “Preach the word; be prepared in season and out of season, correct, rebuke and encourage with great patience and careful instruction.” Exegetical teaching and preaching gives the Christian an example of how to apply scripture to their everyday life.

Romans 10:17 “So then faith comes by hearing and hearing by the word of God”.

1 Timothy 4:6-10 “If you point these things out to the brothers and sisters, you will be a good minister of Christ Jesus, nourished on the truths of the faith and of the good teaching that you have followed. Have nothing to do with godless myths…; rather, train yourself to be godly. For physical training is of some value, but godliness has value for all things, holding promise for both the present life and the life to come.”

Evangelize and Disciple

Matthew 28:18-20 Jesus said: “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to Me. Go, therefore, and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, teaching them to follow all that I commanded you; and behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.”

Openly Condemn Heresies

When heresies were brought into the early church, the guilty were openly rebuked and condemned. Many Pastors and spiritual leaders in American do not condemn false doctrines and erroneous gospel. Whether pastors codify it or not, silence or apathy appears to be complicity.

Galatians 1:6-8 “I am amazed that you are so quickly deserting Him who called you by the grace of Christ, for a different gospel; which is really not another; only there are some who are disturbing you and want to distort the gospel of Christ. But even if we, or an angel from heaven, should preach to you a gospel contrary to what we have preached to you, he is to be accursed.”

The Biblical Gospel

Romans 3:23 “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.”

Romans 5:8 “But God demonstrates His own love toward us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”

1 Corinthians 15:1-4 “Now brothers and sisters, I want to remind you of the gospel I preached to you, which you received and on which you have taken your stand…that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, that He was buried, that He was raised on the third day according to the Scriptures.”

John 20:31 “But these are written that you may believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God; and that believing you may have life in His name.”

What We Do Shows What We Believe

Faith in the work of Jesus Christ saves. Faith in human works condemns. It is easy to say what we believe. Actions show what we truly believe.

Are you trying to work your way into heaven by some impossible sinless perfection?

Do you believe that Jesus Christ, the sinless sacrifice, is not good enough to save you?

Do you think the Son of God dying on the cross needs human works to solidify God’s plan of salvation?

According to Scripture: Will the gospel you believe save you, or condemn you?

John 3:18 says, “He who believes in Him is not condemned; but he who does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.”

Predators, Pimps and Pedophiles in the Pulpit

Cynthia Cummings-Walker, http://www.lifeandbibleblog.com

Let’s begin with definitions for the title of this Blog

Predator – Someone who systematically hunts and exploits vulnerable individuals for personal gain through coercion, rather than through mutual consent, often seeking power and control over victims.

Pimp – To use someone dishonorably for personal gain, even in non-sexual contexts. Living off of or receiving financial support from victims through manipulation.

Pedophile – An adult who is sexually attracted to children, criminally abuses and exploits them.

This Blog would be too lengthy to cite all of the research, investigations, guilty pleadings, convictions, and those serving prison terms when there are so many pastor predators, pimps and pedophiles using their pulpit as a grooming center. However, I have included researchers and statistics below.

True Stories

Over the years I have counselled women who have been abused by pastors in different ways. A lot of stories begins the same. A vulnerable woman gets a lot of attention from a so-called caring pastor, counselling and sexual abuse.

A church that initially functioned as a Christian church, then devolved into a cult of pastor worship and blind obedience. I don’t know if that was the original intent of the pastor. Or, the corrupting influence of absolute power can corrupt absolutely when there is no accountability.
I know personally of a young woman who was not only sexually abused in a Christian school, the Church pastor was aware and did nothing. The pastor wanted a winning girl’s basketball team.
The Christian school hired a female coach who happened to be gay. The female coach sexually abused the girls and enjoyed seeing them form homosexual relationships with each other. I suppose winning a state championship was worth it for the pastor. Nothing for the girls accept a life of pain, struggle and anger with a God they believed had forsaken them.

The Predator Pastor

Pastors who are predators have different motivations, and ways to manipulate and control people. Spiritual abuse of authority is the basic foundation from which to demand obedience and submission as something God ordained.

Some predator pastors want wealth, so they fleece the flock by using tithing, or offerings, as a necessary component of Christianity and church membership.

Many promise health and wealth based on the amount of money a person gives. Some call it planting a seed. Others know it as fraud.

The sexual predator pastor can manipulate a person they desire by making them feel special, create guilt, or fear that God will punish them if they do not obey the pastor.

Any pastor’s self-exaltation, or enforcing dependency on themselves rather than on God should be a red flag.

Whether the pastor’s behavior is fraud, adultery, theft, sexual assault, homosexuality or pedophilia, there seems to be quiet coverups or the pastor going to another church or ministry.

The Pimping Pastor

The pastor who is a pimp lives off of the money he gets by requiring people to give their hard-earned money to the church through all types of schemes.

Pimp Pastors abuse their authority by claiming that financial blessing is tied to obedience to them. This forces their members to fund their lavish lifestyles. There are exorbitant pastor’s salaries, his anniversary, church anniversaries, birthdays, and special offerings,

Many congregants give sacrificially to support the pimp, receiving nothing for their services except empty handed promises that sacrificing and struggling here on earth will reap a greater reward in heaven.

Have you ever noticed that if the Pastor has a need, he can just ask the church to provide it? On the other hand if a member has a need, they are told to pray. If God doesn’t provide, the person is told to go to government agencies for assistance.

I’ve seen and heard of this happening so many times, especially in mega churches.

The Pedophile Pastor

Many years ago the Catholic Church was proven to have covered up a lot of pedophilia going on in parishes. It all appeared to be within the Catholic church until investigations were conducted and discovered that the Protestant churches have also been guilty of pedophilia for years.

Here are a few examples of actions that may signal a pedophile pastor’s attempt at grooming a child.

Pedophile pastor having an unnatural, excessive interest in a child.
Inappropriate boundaries (requiring hugs or kisses).
Grooming behaviors like excessive gifts or special attention.
Requiring a child’s isolation for counselling or other activities.

Of course, these are very general actions. I would encourage you to be educated on what to look for, and preventative measures so that our children will be protected.

What Can Be Done?

Know the Signs:

Any pastor who requires blind obedience, and submission to the pastor without question, should be questioned. If that is not allowed, exit.

Take Personal Responsibility:

False pastors do not encourage their congregants to read and study the bible for themselves. If Christians don’t know what the bible says, they will have to solely rely on what the pastor teaches, whether bible-inspired or the fulfilment of their desires.

Christians are responsible for developing a personal relationship with the Lord so that you will be able to discern good from evil and truth from error. Be a student of the Bible, read, study, memorize scripture and pray, pray and pray some more.

If you see something, say something, do something. If Church leadership is unresponsive or asks you to keep anything a secret, it would probably be wise to exit that ministry. Law enforcement probably needs to know if there is a criminal act being committed.

Church Leadership Responsibilities:

Churches should have strong governance and accountability, so that pastors cannot act without oversight.

This seems to be lacking in many churches. Even when misconduct by a pastor is disclosed, without accountability, the pastor simply goes to another church, or begins their own ministry.

Because there are widespread cover-ups, you may learn that it has happened or been happening in the church you are attending. If something seems suspicious, ask questions and be equipped to take things further if necessary.

Resources

Here are just a few organizations with invaluable information and tools to assist when vulnerable adults and children have been abused.

Baylor University is a nationally recognized research and advocacy center on clergy abuse.
Praesidium, Inc. are nationwide experts researching and providing tools for preventing the sexual abuse of children and vulnerable adults.
Guidepost Solutions is a national association of Evangelicals providing resources, ethical codes, and promoting confidential reporting.
Womenslaw.org specializes in Spiritual Abuses.

Questions to Ponder

Have you ever experienced Spiritual Abuse? What happened? How did you get free?

Have you ever been deceived by a promise of health and wealth if you gave lots of money in planting a financal seed?

Have you ever struggled financially after faithfully paying tithes, and received no assistance from Church the one time you needed it?

Have you had abuse, interactions, or knowledge of a Pedophile pastor? What was the outcome?

Transforming Grief: From ‘Why’ to ‘What Can I Do?’

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by Cynthia Cummings-Walker

When I was given the bad news, at first I was in shock. All kinds of thoughts swirled around in my head. I took a few deep breaths to calm the torrent of tears and confusion. I needed to be able to think clearly. Decisions had to be made, but first I wanted to know “Why?” Why did my child die when so many others in the same situation lived?

Of course, I wouldn’t want anyone else’s loved one to die, I just wanted to know why mine didn’t live. I couldn’t help but compare myself to others who received miracles in hopeless situations. Against all odds, some people survived when death was imminent, or an illness deemed incurable was cured. Why didn’t this happen in my case? Not getting a miracle just like so many others wasn’t fair.

Through a veil of excruciating pain and bitter tears I asked the “Why?” question over and over. I prayed and pleaded for God to let me know why. I believed that if the “Why” questions were answered, I would understand. Yet, to my chagrin, God remained silent.

I was livid! I was angry with people because of their actions or inaction. I was angry with myself. Perhaps if I had done something different this wouldn’t have happened. I was mad at everyone. I was behaving as though mere mortals have the power of life and death in their hands. Only God has that power. I was angry with Him too. Why didn’t He stop this from happening?

Would Knowing “Why” Change What Happened?

Eventually something dawned on me…if the “Why” questions were answered, and the results remained the same, knowing “Why” wouldn’t change a thing. My child would still be dead. Knowing “Why” was useless. It had no pain relief attached to it.

This tragedy had left me feeling like I had fallen into a deep, dark pit. “Why” would not be the rope or ladder lifting me out. My thought process had to change if I wanted to have peace. Demanding answers had gotten me nowhere. I decided to ask the Lord for direction. Kind of “Not My will but Thine be done.”

This opened-minded approach to dealing with tragedy would allow me to know what God wanted to do, verses what I wanted Him to do. Because the Bible is God’s primary communication to us, I turned there for clarity.

One day while reading I came across a story that made me look at my condition in a completely different light. In John 5:5-9 there is a story of a man who had been ill for thirty-eight years. When Jesus saw him lying on a mat,.. Jesus “said to him, Do you want to be made well?” What a strange question to ask someone who is incapacitated? Even odder was the fact that the man didn’t say yes. Instead he said ““Sir, I have no man to put me into the pool when the water is stirred up; but while I am coming, another steps down before me.” (NKJV)

I don’t know whether the man asked for help and was rejected, or whether he didn’t ask anyone for help, assuming that no one would want to help him. Whatever his reasoning, blaming others was getting him nowhere. The question Jesus asked, and the response from the infirmed man was not much different than mine back then.

Was I remaining in this emotional pit because I was failing to do what it took to get out? Was it easier for me to blame others, rather than taking responsibility for what I needed to do for myself to be healed?

This self-examination prompted me to look deeper into my attitude and actions. Did I really want my broken heart healed? Did I feel that if I tried to move forward enjoying life again, others might think that I didn’t really love my daughter?

My identity had become the grieving mother. I had gotten comfortable being paralyzed by pain and making excuses for why I wasn’t moving forward. Even though the man on the mat did not say he wanted to be healed, Jesus healed him anyway. The same for me.

Exchange the “Why” for “What Can I Do Now?”

“Why” would have to go and take its bitterness and despair with it. “What” would take its place. I wondered what specific things I could do to move forward in life. I read books about people who used their pain and misfortunes to help others. Some started organizations or support groups; dedicated playgrounds or planted trees in honor of their loved one. Others impacted lives by being a friend or mentor to someone who is struggling. There are myriads of positive things that can be done.

Getting out of that dark pit of despair into the world of possibilities changed my life exponentially. As I heard the uplifting stories from others, and shared mine, my outlook on life brightened. My depression lifted. I didn’t have to feel guilty about enjoying life. I was doing something worthwhile; something that in the long run honored my child.

“What” pulled me out of the pit of despair onto a seat of power. Not power in the sense that I was anyone special. The power was the ability to be a part of a process that would affect people’s lives for the better.

“What” took the focus off of me and placed it on to others. I had renewed strength and vitality. I felt an energy I hadn’t experienced in years. I could genuinely laugh and smile again. It was amazing. Whenever I felt sad, I would rebound quicker.

Are you stuck on the “Why” merry-go-round, always moving but going nowhere? Do you really want to be well? If so, there is hope. When you are ready to reach out to others, the small piece of rope you are barely holding on to can be transformed into a lifeline for someone who is sinking. None of this happens overnight, yet it can happen.

If you decide to exchange the “Why” for the “What” it can be transformative, taking you from debilitating pain to a renewed sense of hope and purpose. Take the risk. You may surprise yourself with the positive impact you can have on others. You just have to take it one step at a time.

Questions for Reflection

Are there positive things you can see that have come out of your tragedy?

Do you want to get well? If not, why do you think you should live in a perpetual state of grief and loss?

Does Prayer Really Change Things?

With the state of this nation, many people are wondering what in the world is going on. Despite Christians praying, there seems to be never ending economic issues, health issues, jobless issues, political issues, church issues, relationship issues, racial issues, and/or leadership issues, wars and rumors of war, that will not go away.

Jeremiah 33:3a says, “Call to Me, and I will answer you,…” John 15:7 says, “If you abide in Me, and My words abide in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you.”

In response, Churches have been having prayer meetings, prayer groups, prayer partners, prayer rallies, bible studies on prayer and all kinds of activities wherein they are calling out to the Lord in obedience to scripture.

Some people go on fasts along with their prayers, believing that fasting expedites God’s answering prayer and giving victory over the problems. What more can Christians possibly do? What do you think is the problem?

Some blame the devil. Some blame a political party or the government. Some blame non-Christians’ sinful lifestyle. Who out there is responsible for God not answering a Christian’s call? It’s not someone out there. It’s someone in here. Unrepentant Christians are the problem. Sin is the problem.

Sin Will Close God’s Ears to a Christian’s Prayer

We realize that God does not have ears. God is a Spirit. ‘Ears’ is an anthropomorphism used to ascribe human characteristics to God so that we can better understand what the Lord is conveying. The issue at hand is that unconfessed sin disrupts our communication with the Lord.

Isaiah 59:2 says: “But your iniquities have made a separation between you and your God, And your sins have hidden His face from you so that He does not hear.”

So when you spread out your hands in prayer, I will hide My eyes from you; Yes, even though you multiply prayers, I will not listen..” Isaiah 1:15

Can we really expect God to listen to our prayers when we live a worldly lifestyle, or Christians that don’t spend time with the Lord reading, praying and meditating on scripture? What about those of us who don’t pray unless we need God to give us something or solve a problem? Authentic Christianity is about having a relationship with the Lord, not acting like He is there only for 911 emergencies.

Christians may think that going to church, bible studies and doing good things makes up for ignoring God outside of spiritual activities. It does not. Living a life of rebellion against God and disobeying Scripture has severe consequences.

1 Samuel 15:22–23 “ …“Has the Lord as much delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices As in obeying the voice of the Lord. Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice,… “For rebellion is as the sin of divination, And insubordination is as iniquity and idolatry. Because you have rejected the word of the Lord, He has also rejected you….”

Mistreating People Hinders Answers to Prayer

In Matthew 22:37-40 Jesus says that the most important commandment is that Christians love the Lord your God with all of your heart, soul, mind and strength and your neighbor as yourself. Everything Christians do should emanate out of love for God as we interact with people.

The Lord places the treatment of people above things like going to church or doing good deeds. “If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing.” (I Corinthians 13:1-2) What Christian’s do for, or against people is for, or against God (Matthew 25:40-45).

Here in Isaiah, the people are asking God why He is not answering their prayers even though they are fasting and praying. This is how the Lord responds:

Isaiah 58:2-7 “For day after day they seek me out; they seem eager to know my ways, as if they were a nation that does what is right and has not forsaken the commands of its God.

They ask me for just decisions and seem eager for God to come near them. ‘Why have we fasted,’ they say, ‘and you have not seen it? Why have we humbled ourselves, and you have not noticed?’

God answers: “Yet on the day of your fasting, you do as you please and exploit all your workers. Your fasting ends in quarreling and strife,….

You cannot fast as you do today and expect your voice to be heard on high.

Is this the kind of fast I have chosen, only a day for a man to humble himself … Is that what you call a fast, a day acceptable to the Lord?”

This is the fasting that the Lord recognizes: “Is not this the kind of fasting I have chosen:

to loose the chains of injustice and untie the cords of the yoke,

to set the oppressed free and break every yoke?

“Is it not to share your food with the hungry and

to provide the poor wanderer with shelter—

when you see the naked, to clothe them,…?”

If a person says they are a ‘Christian’ yet hates people, they are not a Christian. They don’t know God. (1 John 4:7-8, and 1 John 4:20).

“This is how we know that we love the children of God: by loving God and carrying out His commands. In fact, this is love for God: to keep His commands; And His commands are not burdensome,” I John 5:2-3

Repentance and Obedience Opens God’s Ears

2 Chronicles 7:14 “If My people who are called by My name humble themselves and pray and seek My face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, will forgive their sin and will heal their land.”

Isaiah 1:16-17 “Wash and make yourselves clean. Take your evil deeds out of my sight! Stop doing wrong, learn to do right! Seek justice, encourage the oppressed…”.

Isaiah 58:9-11

“If you remove the yoke from your midst,

The pointing of the finger and speaking wickedness,

And if you give yourself to the hungry

And satisfy the desire of the afflicted,

Then your light will rise in darkness And your gloom will become like midday….

the Lord will continually guide you,

And satisfy your desire in scorched places,

And give strength to your bones;

And you will be like a watered garden,

And like a spring of water whose waters do not fail”.”

In Conclusion

Christian’s have a choice of whether or not they want to live a life of obedience to God. There are blessings for those who do: Psalm 128:1-2 says, “Blessed are all who fear the LORD, who walk in obedience to Him. You will eat the fruit of your labor, blessings and prosperity will be yours.”

And consequences for those who don’t. “Now all has been heard; here is the conclusion of the matter: Fear God and keep his commandments, for this is the duty of all mankind. For God will bring every deed into judgement, including every hidden thing,….” Ecclesiastes 12:13-14

Therefore, for any pseudo-Christians who want to ignore God through hate instead of love, oppress, imprison, judge, malign, abuse, ignore, deny justice to, and withhold from, when you are commanded to help, you are on your own…just stop wasting your time praying because God is not listening. However….

1 John 1:9 says “That if we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”